Zachary turns 16 today! Since it has become a custom, here is the birthday blog post to this little homeboy that seems to be growing up into quite the young man. Allow me to brag on my boy here for a little while. If it seems to mushy for you, then feel free to go find a YouTube video of sword fighting cats or something. I don’t mind at all.
I can’t believe you are already 16 years old. The time has flown by, and while I have always been aware of how fast it moves, I can honestly say that this last year has been a bigger blur than usual! There have always been certain “parts” of who you are that seem to develop more in a 12 month period than others, but the changes in you over the last 12 months have been astonishing in all aspects.
Physically – Dude, I can honestly say that I am starting to regret telling you that the day you can whip me you will have earned it. You’re becoming a tank, and I am starting to feel the need to watch you out of the corner of my eye just in case you decide it is time to go for it! I’ve always enjoyed wrestling with you and goofing off together like that, and I beam with pride when I hear people say things like, “I just saw your son. What have you been feeding him?” Acorn & Tree. Chip & Block. You have grown a lot over the past year, and I don’t see you being done just yet.
Mentally – This past year of school has been impressive to say the least. Your Mom and I are very proud of the work that you have done over the year in studies that are intended for an older student, but you have not only done well in your classes, you have OWNED them! To see the way that you are grasping complex concepts as well as learning to write at a higher level has been a joy. This next year as you start on college courses, we feel confident that you will continue to excel in what you do. You have grown a lot over the past year, and I don’t see you being done just yet.
Emotionally – We’ve had some important conversations over the past year when it comes to handling emotions in a godly manner like a man should. The conversation that we had just the other day meant more to me than you will probably ever know, and as a man I was impressed, but as a Dad I could not have been more proud of you. Learning to handle our emotional responses is vital in our relationships, and you are learning it at a younger age than I did. My hope is that by doing so, you will be in a better position to handle the hard things of life as they come across your path than I was. You have grown a lot over the past year, and I don’t see you being done just yet.
Relationally – I have seen you develop better and stronger friendships over the past year. You are learning better how to be a friend to those in your peer groups, and sometimes that means calling them out! I’ve seen you do that on a few occasions over the past year, and that is a testament to the man you are becoming. Not because you told someone they were wrong, but because you came alongside someone and helped them see a damaging thing in their lives and helped them for their benefit, not for your ego. You didn’t throw a judgement and walk away, you stayed with them to help them. That’s a trait that honors God, and I am so proud to see that in you. You have grown a lot over the past year, and I don’t see you being done just yet.
Musically – Your guitar skills have taken a huge leap over the past year, and I thought you were really good then! The passion that you have for your music shows when you play because it flows out of your heart. I can’t wait to see what God is going to do with you as you continue to look at your music skills and how you can develop them more. I know it is going to be big with you. You have grown a lot over the past year, and I don’t see you being done just yet.
Spiritually – Zach, since your birthday last year, you have a new relationship with Christ, and it is making a difference in you in ways that are impacting these other aspects of your life. You have been in your Bible more, reading some better books for spiritual growth, journaling, and focusing on not only the act of playing of worship, but worshipping in your playing. Over the last 12 months I challenged you to grow in your life spiritually, and I have been so thankful for what I have seen God doing in you as you accepted that challenge. You have grown a lot over the past year, and I don’t see you being done just yet.
You might have noticed a phrase repeated through this. (I hope so, I just said you were smart!) I want you to know that I write that as a challenge. I see so much potential in you to go farther and grow more, and while I am impressed with what the last year has been like, I believe that you are just getting going! There are things that God is going to do with you as you keep yourself tender toward Him, and I know that He has plans for you that are beyond my imagination. Are you open to it?
I want you to be Relentless in the growth process. Growing is never done until you are dead. I want you to never feel that you have arrived, but to have a hunger to keep pushing to be the best that you can be. I’m proud of you, and I always will be. I want you to be able to look back on your life one day and say,
“I’ve grown a lot over the past year, but I don’t see me being done just yet.”
I love you, son. Happy Birthday!