Last night my wife and I did something we have not done in a few years. We got supper and drove out to Old Mission Peninsula Park and enjoyed our supper on the beach. This is something we did when we first started dating, and it became a tradition that at some point each summer we would make the trek. Usually the dinner consisted of pizza from a shop on the way.
Tammi suggested we get Grand Traverse Pie Company for supper this time, and with the promise of pie, she knew she had me in the bag. Unfortunately, without my knowledge, there was also a pickle in my bag, and my sandwich was soaked with that nasty flavor. (Sorry, not a pickle lover. Never have been and never will be…). I guess it showed that we were a little rusty from not doing this for a few years.
The best part of the trip was just hanging out with my wife and talking. Life has been too busy lately, and while we each hate that it happens, we get a little drawn apart. It was good to have some time to talk about what has been going on in our heads, catch up with each other’s hearts, and do a little dreaming together. That is something we have always done well together, but lately conversation has primarily been about the daily functions and necessary downloads of schedules and pertinent information to the next 24 hour period.
I am hoping for some more good time like this in the next week as our kids are at camp. We miss having them around (I have to do the horses in the mornings), but it is good practice for remembering what it was like when it was just us (no horses) before kids (no horses). I am glad to say that I am not worried about it. When God gave me my wife, He definitely gave me to good thing that I needed.
Through our years together I have grown because of her in many ways. I have my own reasons for wanting to grow in God, but one of them is my desire to be the man that she deserves. Just in being my wife she makes me want to be a better husband. I fail sometimes (please do not approach her for statistics), but I know that I am better in most ways than I was almost 20 years ago.
So, I just wanted to share how blessed I am feeling today to have this wonderful lady in my life. Have a great rest of the weekend!
PS – The horses are not that bad. At least when they let me catch them…
Relentless Growth -> Grow Deep -> Grow Strong